How much do you give at funerals? I give $20 if I don't really know the person, like a coworkers dad that I had never met. I give $100 if it is somebody that I know fairly well, like a friend or friend's spouse or (cringe) child. I was talking to some coworkers and they give $10 or $20. I would only give $20 or $25 for a wedding but way more for a funeral because that's final and not by their choice. What do you think?